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Feb. 9, 2022

Why

• Why this woman wants you to count your orgasms. Michele Theil | Metro

How

• How Sex Hacker Kenneth Play Learned to Love His Average-Sized Penis
  In this excerpt of his new book ‘Beyond Satisfied,’ the renowned sex hacker shares life-changing tips for using what you’ve got. Kenneth Play| menshealth

What

• What Florida’s “Don’t Say Gay” Bill Could Mean for LGBTQ Kids. Madeleine Carlisle | time

Who is who

• Royal Opera House hires intimacy coordinator Ita O’Brien to work on the production of Handel’s Theodora to ensure actors feel comfortable during sex scenes. Nadia Khomami | theguardian

Movie

• The Oscar Nominations Are Here and (a Little Bit) Queer. Rachel Shatto | advocate

Flirting

• okcupid: download these exclusively inclusive valentine’s cards from a diverse group of inspiring artists

Apps

• TikTok has discovered a new eye trick to prove whether or not you’re really in love, and this could make Valentine’s Day awkward. Summer Goodkind| thetab

Gifts

• Caviar surprises fans with an erotic collection for St. Valentine’s Day. (Youtube) Get kinky with these exotic, erotic iPhones. Ed Hardy | cultofmac

Sex of humor

• A Sexual-Decision Flowchart That Makes Everything Simpler for Medieval Men. James Hamblin | theatlantic

Quote

It’s the old adage of you kind of have to get out there and kiss a lot of frogs, right? And I think that this is sometimes underappreciated.

by Paul Eastwick, professor of psychology at UC Davis, the principal investigator for the Attraction and Relationships Research Laboratory

from Podcast Paul Eastwick on relationship science James Hamblin | The Backdrop