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3 min readMar 25, 2022

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Art

Excerpt

The woman who found BDSM in her 50s. In her book ‘Women On Top of the World’ Lucy-Anne Holmes has collated the true and often astonishingly candid accounts of lust, desire, heartbreak and romantic hope from women, from all around the globe.

Impact

Cops Can No Longer Have Sex with Detainees. Congress just closed a loophole that allowed federal officers to claim sex with people in their custody was consensual. (Aj Dellinger | mic)

Sex Toys

The Best Kinky Sex Toys Mix Pain With Pleasure. All the gear you need to get started with consensual BDSM. (Kate Sloan | GQ )

Polyamory

Is Non-Hierarchical Polyamory the New Relationship Goalpost? ( Angelica Pasquini |purewow )

Dating Show

The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On season two will have an all-queer cast, Netflix has announced. (Lily Wakefield | pinknews)

Sex Workers

Want to Fix Big Tech? Stop Ignoring Sex Workers. SESTA/FOSTA was supposed to prevent sex trafficking. Instead it got people killed. Congress should study its failure before changing Section 230 again. (Evan Greer|dailybeast)

Book

The Best Sex Julia May Jonas Has Ever Read. (As told to Lila Shapiro | vulture)

How

How to Overcome a Language Barrier in Bed. ( Suzannah Weiss | self )

It can be useful to establish your own personal “yes” and “no” signals or words. Think about what words or signs you can both use to convey important concepts like “more,” “stop,” “okay,” or “does that feel good?”

Sex Advice

If Insecurities During Sex Are Getting in Your Way of Pleasure, You May Be ‘Spectatoring’ — Here Are 4 Tips To Stop.(Ashley Broadwater|wellandgood)

App

The Headero app is the brainchild of ThotExperiment CEO Stephen Quadere

Headero: A Gender-inclusive Dating App for Oral Pleasure. The oral sex app features 64 options for identity, desires, and kinks. (Cameron Masters | futureofsex)