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What are the most successful texting styles for relationship satisfaction?

3 min readApr 25, 2022

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Art

Diving into the Night Painting | Piotr Kachny | Poland

Sex Workers

Meet Aella: The Libertarian Rationalist Sex Worker Turned Data Scientist. (Liz Wolfe & Zach Weissmueller | reason)

Nudity

Apple’s nudity-blurring Messages feature gets international release. It’s coming to the UK, Canada, Australia, and New Zealand. (Jon Porter | theverge)

Author Interview

Sex and serious journalism co-mingle in an intimate memoir on kink and polyamory. Rachel Krantz’s new book ‘Open’ breaks the glass wall of taboo while serving as a guide for self-liberation and avoiding gaslighting in any relationship. ( Shelley Sackett | timeofisrael )

History

The Zine That Cake Instagram Made “Cake Zine,” a new self-published project, aims to explore the rich history of cake. From phallic pastries to cake-sitting, its first issue is all about sex. ( Bettina Makalintal | eater )

BDSM

11 Best BDSM Dating Sites that Actually Work 2022 Edition (metrotimes)

What

What is spanking therapy, and how can it help? (Beth Sissons | medicalnewstoday)

Lingerie

You Can Get A Cheeseburger Lingerie Set Complete With Rhinestone Sesame Seeds. ( totallythebomb )

Sex Ed

Republicans Have Sex Ed All Wrong. Some pundits say that talking with little kids about sex and gender primes them to be taken advantage of. Sex-ed researchers say that the opposite is true. ( Olga Khazan | theatlantic )

Relationship

Texting Style and Romantic Relationship Satisfaction. Research suggests the most successful texting styles. ( Barbara Greenberg | psychologytoday )

Movie Review

‘Sexual Drive’ Review: Kôta Yoshida’s Spicy Trio of Erotic Tales Puts a Tasteful New Spin on Food Porn. A light snack of a film that evokes “Tampopo” and “Wheel of Fortune and Fantasy” as part of its fetishistic exploration of food and sex. ( David Ehrlich | indiewire )