Sexualist 62# Erotic Blueprints, Pillow Pleasure Island, Role-Playing, Cross-Dresser, Book Bans

Does Cheating Count as Non-Monogamy?

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Mon Apr 25

Art

Très chic Painting | Claudio Di Carlo | Italy

Sex Diaries

• The Wealthy Housewife Role-Playing With Her Husband. (As told to Alyssa Shelasky | thecut )

Orgasm

• I’m an erotica expert and one sound from nature can make your orgasm better. (Karina Mitchell | thesun)

Q&A

• Should I tell my husband I know he’s a cross-dresser? (Angela Brokmann | sundayworld)

Venice Biennale

‘Big Spoon’, film still from ‘When the body says Yes’. Courtesy of melanie bonajo

• A pluffy pillow pleasure island’ — Dutch Venice Biennale focus is touch and consent. (Deborah Nicholls-Lee | dutchnews)

What

• What are the 5 Erotic Blueprints? How to Find Yours? (Jamie LeClaire | mindbodygreen )

Nudity

• Emily Andre outlines why she ‘doesn’t make a big deal’ of being naked with her kids. (Sam Elliott-Gibbs | mirror)

Graphic Novel

• “Flung Out of Space” Grapples With Patricia Highsmith’s Misanthropic Lesbian Life. (Heather Hogan | autostraddle)

Non-Monogamy

• Does Cheating Count as Non-Monogamy? (Kay Kibbe | insidehook)

O for Opinion

• Biological sex isn’t up for debate. (Armstrong Williams | mainstreetnashville )

Pride

Tokyo Rainbow Pride event in Tokyo’s Shibuya Ward on April 24. (Naoko Kawamura)

• 2,000 participate in returning Tokyo Rainbow Pride parade. (Hiroaki Takeda | asahi)

Marriage

• Nifty ways to leave a lover (temporarily) — how a gap year could save your marriage. (Lucy Cavendish | theguardian)

TV Show

• Netflix’s Heartstopper is your next favorite wholesome, queer teen rom-com. (Saloni Gajjar | avclub)

Book

• No, actually, book bans don’t sell books. ( Andrew Karre | iowacapitaldispatch )

Number Matters

• A third of people aged over 70 are sexually active, survey reveals Researchers asked 511 people aged 70 or over who lived in Belgium how sexually active they had been in the past year. (Christa Lesté-Lasserre|newscientist)

Music Video

Of Monsters and Men — This Happiness

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