Sexualist 64# Clit Literate, Kinky’s Dessert Bar, Safe Word, Male Nudity, Needles Workshop
Why are men having more orgasms than women in heterosexual relationships?
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Wed Apr 27
Don’t miss the sexy event list at the end of the newsletter
Art
Orgasm
- I’m sure my boyfriend is The One but I can’t orgasm when we have sex. (Mary O’Conor| independent)
Quiz
- Are You Clit Literate? Test Your Knowledge. (greatest)
Why
- Why are men having more orgasms than women in heterosexual relationships? (Nicole Andrejek | theconversation)
Exhibition
- Venice exhibition ‘AllTogether’ combines Tom of Finland’s illustrations with erotic artists that came before and after. (Jack Moss | wallpaper)
Nudity
- We’re in the golden age of full-frontal male nudity on TV. It’s about time (Craig Mathieson|smh)
Sex Toy Review
Travel
- Kinky’s Dessert Bar: The newest erotic hotspot in the Lower East Side NYC. (Tiana McGee| newschoolfreepress)
Libido
- Women turn to libido pills to kick-start post-lockdown romance with formulas that claim to increase blood flow, boost testosterone and lower stress. (Chay Quinn | dailymail)
BDSM
- What Is a Safe Word and How Does It Work? (Alex Manley | askmen )
Polyamory
- Does Polyamory Spread Love too Thin? Is the loving heart able to expand? （ Aaron Ben-Zeév | psychologytoday )
Book
- There is a bell hooks Book for Every Season of Life. The Author of “The Sex Lives of African Women”, Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah on the Liberatory Possibilities of Sexual Experience (Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah | lithub)
Parenting
- ‘My grandson is gay and I’m struggling with it’ (James Wilson | newstalk)
Music Video
KAROL G — PROVENZA
Sexualist Event List for Today
Wed 4/27
(in person) Shermie’s Needles — BDSM Workshop on Needle Play | NYC
A workshop for the piquerists and belonophiliacs of the kink community (and for the curious, as per usual). Teacher Shermie is a retired Physician and Educator who bottoms and service-tops with both fire and medical play.
Wed 4/27 5–6pm EST $25 — $75 The Crown, Brooklyn
Naked Yoga Online with Ashanti in Belize
Each session is hosted online and requires the participant to have their microphone OFF, and camera ON.
Wed 4/27 630pm EST From CA$33.91
Kinky Home Ec: Leather Care 101
Leather Care 101 will teach you how to clean, condition, polish and care for the most common types of leather used in BDSM spaces, home, and Dungeon.
Wed 4/27 9–11pm EST $15 — $35
(in person) Sex, Drugs, & Books: A Logan Square Book Club | Chicago
Logan Square’s sex-positive bookclub is kicking off with Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski! Light discussion, complimentary beverages and an enjoyable evening with like-minded folks. We’ll be talking about the book in the relaxed and friendly atmosphere of The Sunday Standard’s event space.
Wed 4/27 630–830pm CDT Free | 2837 West Armitage Avenue Chicago
(in person) Cabernet Cabaret in Club Cumming | NYC
Every Wednesday at Club Cumming, featuring NYC’s most effervescent performer. Prepare yourself for an elegant evening of song, storytelling, and standup comedy from the buzziest names in the biz. It’s time to wine and whine with your host Catherine Cohen.
Wed 4/27 8–10pm EST from $25
(in person) Le Femme The Girly PLaydate Women & Femme Identifying only by NSFW | NYC
Mary Goodnight is a Hostess Party where you can engage with dozens of beautiful women looking for a little conversation. Spend a little to enjoy some time with this evening’s muses and spark conversations that may lead to deeper connections.
Wed 4/27 10pm-4am EST $49–89 open bar included with ticket
